Do the younger mothers around feel that us mature ladies try to interfere too much with childrearing? - mature ladies blogspot
Sometimes I wonder back to think that a young mother, and I hated being told "what to do" for women who have already raised their children, do you think it is a fact, "older and wiser, but not always?
Mature Ladies Blogspot Do The Younger Mothers Around Feel That Us Mature Ladies Try To Interfere Too Much With Childrearing?
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Depends. So if a good advice, I think it is good to hear, especially if someone gone through what you are experiencing. But I personally a woman who has an awful enough to raise it to 3 adult children and is done know, but remember, it's very different, and tell people what has always been a good mother, and that any possible way to do it!
This is usually the minority, but it is logical to think that if someone has already done something that is more experience than someone who has only just begun. I think it depends on the experience we had!
Too hard to believe for me, Mama always knows best ... ~ ~ Smile
Of course, I think "older and wiser, but not always!" Many older women have raised children in the production, where the children were "seen and not heard, does not believe in the feelings of their children are important and not really listening to what children want to say, just to behave.
I am dealing with this lot in a church! I have to go to church last year. The old ladies that my children are out of control sometimes, and I have them a pertussis if they are not sitting still. However, I do not think it is to be expected, children to sit still and quiet for 2 hours (or more) if they do not understand what not to speak of the pastor.
In my humble opinion, all in the delivery.
My MIL is very careful about how she gives me advice, always beginning with a warning like "The doctors told us," or "Back then we thought," and really listen when I say how many that our day. Together, we can find common ground.
yes, I am a mother of 18 years of my son, almost 2 years and older mothers more advice for me, even when he was asked. but as the girl above me most of the things said in the havent, that women have been taught for years.
I'm sure you do, but if it goes wrong, which is the first thing you say. Go figure
I am a young mother and I appreciate any advice you can get. Listen not always agree with him or her, but much more time mothers have great wisdom and tricks of the trade, which saved me time, problems with my children.
I am a young mother and I appreciate any advice you can get. Listen not always agree with him or her, but much more time mothers have great wisdom and tricks of the trade, which saved me time, problems with my children.
The problem is that sometimes the old mother has forgotten what it means when her children were very young. Can not always remember what very little sleep at night, every night. Not always have the patience with young children in the same way, young mothers. I agree with you.
BTW, I'm an older mother, but I remember what it is, but I think I'm the exception.
I personally think it is the ratio of mature women, the young mother. For example, I think my mother takes care of a lot with my son and I have not spoken to my sister and my brother in such a way that the child is raised. When young people are then asked to give advice, otherwise they remain closed. Of course, I am an old mother. I think that young mothers have more energy than we, but it seems likely to have more patience
The funny: I live in a wealthy community. All mothers can for their children. Many of them work.
None of us are still young.
Go figure.
I do not think that I have a test version of a young mother, but the truth is that it does not respond.
I have three children, my oldest is almost twelve years, the twins are eight. My twins have a variety of medical problems, and you have an intellectual disability. I can not tell you how many mothers / grandmothers, etc., etc. try to tell me it's not really disabled, all the children as they acted their day, everything can be blamed ________ (no recess enough in the school, parents, lazy, etc., etc.). It makes me crazy.
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